I’m finally reviewing the iconic, the legendary, and the delightfully shiny njoy Pure Wand!
Giveaway:
Enter to win your own Pure Wand here!
Where to Buy:
SheVibe
Lovehoney (international)
Peepshow Toys
Other Toys Mentioned:
(Hitachi) Magic Wand
Lovehoney Satisfy Me G-Spot Dildo
I sort of never expected to own this toy. To be honest, it kind of scared me. Just the idea of a giant hunk of stainless steel ramming into my G-spot was pretty intimidating. But here it is. I’ve actually had it for over a year now, and I feel like I’m finally equipped to talk about it.
So the njoy Pure Wand is pretty legendary in the sex toy world. Besides the Hitachi Magic Wand I can’t really think of anything else that has such a reputation for being so intense and so beloved. And also like the Magic Wand, it’s almost more of a tool than a toy.
And an extremely effective tool it is.
This toy was kindly given to me by the owner of njoy at a conference last year with no obligation to review or talk about it. Which I’m very grateful for, since that gave me the time and freedom to experiment with it at my own pace. If I had needed to review it within a month of receiving it, I would’ve said that I didn’t like it. Now? I love it. It is one of my all-time favorites.
In my experience, the most vital thing to know about the Pure Wand is that it has a serious learning curve. Before you can possibly like it, you have to figure out how to use it. And that took me a long time. Like, months.
I was so frustrated the first five or six times I tried it because I could not figure out why it wasn’t doing anything for me. It wasn’t unpleasant or anything, but it wasn’t blowing my G-spot’s mind. If I’m honest, it didn’t actually feel like much at all.
Part of my problem is that I don’t think I was physically turned on enough. And the other part is that I was kind of cautious with it because I have a fairly prominent pubic bone, and I was worried that the bulb would catch on it and be painful. So I was afraid to be as aggressive with it as I am with some of my softer/less curved G-spot toys.
And then one day I was enjoying some really excellent smut, and I’d been using just a clit vibrator by itself for awhile when I realized that I needed something else. So I grabbed the Pure Wand and, without thinking, started doing these small, fast thrusts with it… and less than four minutes later I had had my first ever G-spot only orgasm.
The best way to use this dildo is going to vary somewhat from person to person depending on if you’re using it on the G-spot or prostate and how you personally like that area stimulated. I find that a short, kind of scooping thrust motion works best for me, but other people prefer longer thrusts, steady pressure, or just sort of jiggling it a bit.
But a few pieces of general advice that I would give to everyone would be:
- Make sure you are totally relaxed and aroused before you use the Pure Wand. Wait until your roommates or kids are out of the house. Load up the good porn/erotica/brain fantasies. And start slowly with your hands or a vibrator or something until you’re really ready to go.
- Pee before you start, and put down a towel. Using this toy can be messy. It’s known for making a lot of people with vaginas squirt. Even if you don’t squirt (like I don’t really), intense G-spot pressure can make you feel like you need to pee. So going beforehand and having a towel or something down can just help ease any worry about making a mess.
- Be ready for a workout. This toy is solid stainless steel and weighs a pound and a half. In some ways this is a benefit, because I think it really does intensify the stimulation. But it also takes more strength and endurance to use than most other dildos, so you’ve got to be sure you’re up for it. (Or that you can find someone else to use it on you to save yourself the effort.)
When everything comes together and I’m turned on enough and pair it with a good clit vibe, the njoy Pure Wand gives me killer G-spot orgasms the likes of which I’ve never experienced before. It just really, really works for me.
It is impeccably designed, and with some practice I think this is about as close to a foolproof toy as exists. Because of its smooth, frictionless surface, it requires little to no lube to use. The extreme curve really does a lot of the angling for you, and there’s a reason so many people call it their Holy Grail dildo.
But! Remember that no toy works for everyone. There’s a trend I’ve noticed with sex toys that have this kind of “legendary” status, which is that when some people have mediocre or negative experiences with them they can easily feel like they’re broken or like there’s something wrong with them and their body.
And I just want to say that while a lot of people (myself included) do adore the Pure Wand, I definitely know other people who do not care for it. Some don’t like the weight or rigidity. Some find the shape doesn’t play nice with their pubic bone, or they just don’t like direct G-spot stimulation. (Or maybe they can’t use it at all because 316 stainless steel has a 10% nickel content and they have an allergy.)
In some of those situations I think more flexible G-spot toys like the Lovehoney Satisfy Me dildo I just reviewed may work better, and for others G-spot focused toys may never be their thing, and that’s fine. I personally don’t really like the We-Vibe Tango bullet, despite it’s massive popularity, because pinpoint clit vibrations are really overstimulating and unpleasant for me. Everyone has different needs and preferences.
That said, for me, the njoy Pure Wand is definitely worth the hype.
And I’m really excited to be able to give some of you the chance to try this toy out! Because I’ve actually purchased a few more of them and will be posting a big giveaway video in the next day or two.
If you win, my hope is that you’ll love it as much as I do. But hey, worst comes to worst you can still keep it around for self-defense. If the zombie apocalypse comes, it’ll be great for bludgeoning.
So make sure you are subscribed to my channel and follow my social media so you don’t miss that giveaway. And in the meantime, let me know your thoughts on this shiny steel beast down in the comments!
Thanks for watching, and I’ll see you next time!
