Reviews October 7, 2017

Doxy Die Cast Wand Review

When I got my hands on the Doxy Die Cast, for the first week and a half it was the only vibrator I used. And that streak could easily have gone on longer, if I didn’t need to test other things for review. Even now, it is the only sex toy that is stored within reaching distance of my bed, because that’s how fucking good it is…

Guides October 4, 2017

Internet Safety for the Sex Blogger

Cybersecurity and safety are issues for internet users of all stripes, but sex bloggers often have specific concerns. Here are my top tips for maintaining your privacy (especially if you’re pseudonymous) and keeping yourself protected from hackers and harassment…

Biology, Education, Safer Sex September 28, 2017

HIV MYTHS

STIs are a topic that people tend to have a lot of misconceptions about—I even made a video last year addressing some of the most prevalent myths out there. But if there’s one sexually transmitted infection that folks tend to be the most misinformed about, it’s HIV. So today I want to bust some myths and fight the stigma surrounding the human immunodeficiency virus…

Reviews September 17, 2017

We-Vibe Dreamy Desire Collection (We-Vibe Touch & We-Vibe 4 Plus) Review

It’s a We-Vibe party! In this video I am reviewing the two toys that come in their Dreamy Desire Collection, and if you hop over to my blog I’ve also just posted a review there for the new We-Vibe Wish clitoral vibrator. So if you want to know about any of those toys, never fear, I’ve got you covered! The We-Vibe Dreamy Desire Collection comes with two vibrators: the We-Vibe Touch, a small clit vibe, and the We-Vibe 4+, the brand’s namesake wearable vibrator…

Reviews September 16, 2017

We-Vibe Wish Review

I’m just gonna go ahead and say it — I’m kind of over app-compatible vibrators. They’re a fun novelty and often have useful features like long-distance controls and custom pattern programming, but once we get to the point of having to rely on an app for basic vibrator functionality they become more of a burden to me than a benefit. This is the case with the We-Vibe Wish…

Miscellaneous August 20, 2017

The Truth About Body-Safe: Woodhull #SFS17 Transcript

If you’ve spent any time reading sex blogger Twitter in the past couple of weeks, then you have almost certainly witnessed the exasperation caused by a panel at the recent Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit titled “The Truth About Body-Safe: a frank, evidence-based discussion of what body-safe really means”…

Guides July 18, 2017

How To Get What You Want Out of Sex

Any sex educator worth their salt will tell you that good communication is one of the most important components to really great sex. When everyone is on the same page and knows each other’s likes and dislikes, desires and limits, it’s easier to make sure that each person has the best experience possible. But open sexual communication is often easier said than done…

Reviews June 29, 2017

L’amourose Rosa Review

Long ago (err… 2014), tales of a new sex toy company swept through the blogging community. Legend said they had a vibrator called Rosa with a unique shape and vibrations powerful enough to wake up the most stubborn of bodies…

Q&As May 2, 2017

How To Become a Sex Toy Reviewer (Q&A #6)

When people ask me what I do, I often joke that I masturbate for a living. That is, of course, a huge oversimplification. But as a person whose job title includes the words “sex toy reviewer,” it is kind of true. Because my job is so unusual, I tend to get a lot of questions about it, both from people who watch my videos and read my blog and from people I meet in my day-to-day life…