Hello! I got a message the other day from a viewer who said: “I was wondering if you could talk about fetishes and if they’re okay. I have a strong fetish for wedgies. Giving and getting wedgies turns me on more than anything else. How would I bring this concept up to a partner?” …
Latex condoms are one of the most widely used methods of contraception, and definitely the most widely available. They’re awesome at preventing pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, and you may have heard that they’re 98% effective if used correctly…
Hi, my name is Erika. You might know me as “that girl who talks about sex on the internet,” but today I’m doing something a little bit different. Let’s talk about male entitlement. Let’s talk about the messages I get claiming that because I educate about the topic of sex I’m obligated to answer any and all invasive questions about my personal life people feel like asking me…
When Tantus offered me my choice of toys for review, the Slow Drive was actually the first to come to mind. With its smooth texture, smaller size, and a G-spotting tip I’ve seen reviewers rave about, my hope was that it would be a great starter dildo to recommend to anyone looking to start exploring G-spot stimulation…
Hey everyone! Today I’m doing another sex ed Q&A with questions you guys sent me from my blog. Let’s get right into it. #1. “Why do people with penises get morning erections?” Well they’re not exactly morning erections, so much as you’re waking up and catching the end of a night erection…
One topic that is rarely ever covered in US sex education is vaginal discharge, which is mind-boggling to me given that it’s an important bodily phenomenon that happens to everyone born with a vagina. Since it’s such a normal process and can contain important information about our health and menstrual cycles, why doesn’t anybody talk about it? …
Hello! Today I want to talk a little bit about asexuality. Because it’s a term that a lot of people tend to get confused about, which makes sense, as it’s a label and community that’s only just started to become more widely discussed and understood in the past 15 years or so. But I’m here to help, so let’s break it down…
A while back, the lovely, lovely folks over at Tantus sent me a few toys for review, and today I’m going to talk about this one, which is the Tantus Echo. They call the Echo a vibrator because of the cavity in the base that they send a little bullet vibrator for you to put in, but I rarely use it that way…
In human beings, conception occurs when an egg cell (or “ovum”) fuses with a sperm cell to create what will eventually become an embryo and then a fetus and then a baby. Contraception, also known as birth control, is what we use to prevent this pregnancy from occurring. Because babies can be inconvenient…
Lube (sexy, sexy lube) is super awesome and important, but it’s something a lot of people don’t give much, if any, thought to, which boggles my mind. So let’s break it down— what it is, what it does, the different kinds, and ingredients you should watch out for…