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Uncategorized July 18, 2017

How To Get What You Want Out of Sex

Any sex educator worth their salt will tell you that good communication is one of the most important components to really great sex. When everyone is on the same page and knows each other’s likes and dislikes, desires and limits, it’s easier to make sure that each person has the best experience possible. But open sexual communication is often easier said than done…

Uncategorized January 15, 2017

Buying Sex Toys on Amazon? Read This First!

I know that no matter what I say, there are still people who are going to buy their sex toys on Amazon. It’s inevitable — sometimes the promise of a low price or Prime shipping can be too tempting to pass up. I get that. So for those people, here is my guide to Amazon sex toy shopping, including a brief explanation of how Amazon fulfillment services work and my tips for making sure what you pay for is actually what you get…

Uncategorized December 31, 2016

The Best (And Worst) Sex Toys of 2016

As the year draws to a close, I just want to take a little look back over a lot of the sex toys I tried this year. Things I loved. Things I hated. Mostly things I loved, honestly — as shitty as this year was in a lot of regards, it was a pretty good year for sex toys (at least for me)! So let’s dive into many of the wonders and disappointments 2016 brought into my life…

Uncategorized December 9, 2016

5 Sex Toy Shopping Mistakes

Sex toy shopping can be weird. I’ll be the first to admit that. Our society’s attitudes toward sex and masturbation are weird, and it’s usually not often that we buy things that are going to interact with our bodies so intimately. But because they interact with our bodies so intimately, there are a lot of considerations that need to be made when purchasing your sex toys…

Uncategorized March 22, 2016

Top 10 Sex Toys Under $30 (2nd Edition!)

Nearly a year ago now I made a Top 10 Sex Toys Under $30 blog post listing some of the best body-safe toy options available to folks on a tight budget. Since that post I’ve discovered some new gems, so I thought it was time for a second edition! Here are 10 more inexpensive sex toys that kick ass…

Uncategorized November 16, 2015

OH YES: The Tantus Rumble

What’s this? A vibrator made specifically with accessibility and gender/sex neutrality in mind? That explicitly acknowledges disability and diversity of bodies? Made by the body-safe sex toy pioneers and all-around awesome folks at Tantus? Sign me the fuck up!

Uncategorized November 1, 2015

I’m a Sex Blogging Superhero!

It’s taken me a couple of days to stop flailing with glee long enough to type something cohesive, but I think I’m there now. Remember at the beginning of October when I asked you guys to vote for me in Kinkly’s annual Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes contest? …

Uncategorized October 8, 2015

Halloween Sex Toys

If you know me, you know that Halloween is truly my season. (It’s an entire season, not a day, and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise). The walls of my teenage bedroom were lined with horror movie posters, Jack Skellington, and shelves of Living Dead Dolls…